Wednesday, May 11, 2005

What kind of a relationship do you have with your co-workers? Have you established friendships with some of these people? Do you have after-work get-together's with them? I have been in the corporate world since I was 18 years old. So this is what I have decided.

Be very selective with the people that you work with. Don't get too close, too fast with them. If you think you have a friend in someone, think again. Don't make quick judgments about who you can and who you cannot trust. Don't ever confide in anyone about anything, personal or otherwise until you can bet your life on the fact that they will not repeat it. Don't ever gossip at work. Don't ever believe gossip you hear. And if you are having an affair with someone at work, we all know about it, don't think you are really good at hiding it. Keep people guessing about you, don't let them truly know who you are. Be somewhat intimidating.

Poem of the day~

I may come across as a bitch
But you will never know
I will hold you arms length
I have made that mistake before
I will not let you in
Closed is the book of my life
You will never read those pages
Don't ask me to join you
Because you think you should
Only ask me if you truly want me to
I have played that game before
And have lost more than you will know
So I will stay within these walls
And never let you in


Goals/Accomplishments~

I stayed home last night. Lifted weights and did some other exercises at home. Tonight is wally-ball.

Quote/Lyric of the day~


Im a bitch, Im a bitch Oh the bitch is back Stone cold sober as a matter of fact I can bitch, I can bitch`cause Im better than you Its the way that I move The things that I do ~ Elton John

2 comments:

Rumour Miller said...

I completely agree with your post about frienships in the work place... there are few that can pull it off. Things can get messy if you "be-friend" someone at work who isn't a friend at all. You'll know when things you have said, start coming back to you.

Molly said...

It is a double edge sword.